Going...going...gone

Here is my last post from Stuttgart for now. Moving teaches many new lessons and gives many fresh insights into something which might appear normal otherwise.

For example, a wardrobe or a cupboard looks ghostly and different when it is empty. I can almost tell when it is filled with someone's life or it has been emptied of what existed there.

When you are moving cross country, you can never carry enough luggage with you. No matter how much baggage your airline allows you or there is always an option of sending a cargo to the destination. Bottomline, chances are your favourite things from the past might are just excess baggage.

Being ruthless helps. 'Oh I wore that t-shirt at that party where we had our first champagne together.' 'I bought this from my first salary.' Well, whatever emotional attachments, price tags, utility factors you bring in the picture, at the end of the day, keep your priorities clear.

And if you are a writer and you are obviously not JK Rowling (who used to get in the news for not checking in her manuscripts), carrying your originally written notepads in your handbag means shoulder pain for a week.

We've just finished packing, and treated ourselves to midnight Bhel party. The weather is simply marvellous and I do find the ghostly wardrobes, stacked up boxes of left overs and pull between excitement and emptiness a little overwhelming.

Any way, it is already morning and the day has started at the destination. Mann, I already started talking in the flight attendent language.

5 comments:

Varsha said...

Yeah leaving and moving to antoher place is really painfull... but therez also something new waiting for you... Welcome Home.. :)

Pratiksha Thanki said...

Oh it is not painful at all babe, overwhelming for me is exciting. we practically had a moving out party with bhel in the moonlight. and itz even more fun being home. Thanks for dropping by. Hope to catch you soon.

salonee said...

hey, praky,

you are right..its tough to leave your favourite place specially the appartment where you have started your life together with your husband...its tough to leave ur favourite t-shirt / fav. home furnishing/ home fashion item......

I think we become more stronger after you leave ur first appartment...though its on rent, you love that space like anything.....

Pratiksha Thanki said...

Sallu,u too got it wrong like varsha.. what I mean here is... it is not tough or painful at all for me. This process if full of experiences. We enjoyed the process and it gives a break from a routine static life. As for the home is concerned, I already wrote that it would stay in my memories, but no strings attached. Perhaps I need to write another blog about it ;)

sajith viswam said...

kewll..